As I sit down to reflect on the fact that I’m turning 24 in just seven months, it’s like a jolt of reality hitting me square in the face. Where did the time go? It feels like just yesterday I was entering adulthood with big dreams and even bigger plans. But here I am, and it’s time to take stock of where I am and where I want to be.

This year, I made a vow to myself: it’s time to take ultimate control of my life. No more excuses, no more procrastination. It’s time to revisit those New Year’s resolutions and turn them into tangible results. And as I look at those resolutions, I realize that breaking them down into micro-goals is the key to making them achievable.

Take, for example, my goal of booking modeling and acting jobs. It’s a lofty ambition, but breaking it down into smaller, more manageable tasks makes it feel less daunting. So, instead of fixating solely on landing those big gigs, I’m focusing on getting more representation in my city or even just improving communication with my mother agent. And to break it down even further, I’m actively networking myself to companies through social media and emails, putting myself out there and making connections wherever I can.

But setting goals is only half the battle. For someone like me, who often finds themselves in a constant state of flight or fight, it’s crucial to address the underlying mindset that accompanies it. For me, reconnecting with my faith has been instrumental. Remembering that there’s a plan for me, that everything happens for a reason, has helped me find peace in the midst of chaos. It’s a reminder that even in the toughest moments, there’s a lesson to be learned and growth to be gained.

Another key aspect of getting my priorities straight is rewriting my goals to reflect what truly matters to me. It’s easy to get caught up in what society expects or what others are doing, but at the end of the day, my goals are mine and mine alone. So, I’m taking the time to remind myself of what I want to achieve and why it’s important to me.

And perhaps the most important lesson I’ve learned in this journey is that no one is going to hand me anything. Success isn’t just going to fall into my lap—I have to work for it, relentlessly and with urgency. So, I’m putting in the effort, day in and day out, to chase after my goals and make them a reality.

As I look ahead to the next seven months and beyond, I’m filled with a renewed sense of determination and purpose. This year is the year I take control, the year I push myself further than ever before. And with my priorities straight and my eyes set firmly on the prize, I know that nothing can stand in my way.

But beyond the tangible goals and achievements, there’s also a deeper level of self-discovery and growth happening. I’m learning to be kinder to myself, to celebrate the small victories along the way, and to embrace the journey, no matter how challenging it may be.

In the midst of all the hustle and bustle, it’s essential to pause and check in with myself regularly. Am I still aligned with my goals? Am I taking care of my mental and emotional well-being? These questions serve as gentle reminders to stay grounded and focused on what truly matters.

And as I navigate the ups and downs of life, I find solace in the fact that I’m not alone on this journey. Whether it’s friends, family, or mentors, having a support system in place makes all the difference. They’re there to cheer me on during the victories and lift me up during the setbacks.

So, as I inch closer to my 24th birthday, I do so with a sense of excitement and anticipation for what lies ahead. I’m ready to tackle whatever challenges come my way, armed with the knowledge that I have the power to shape my own destiny. And with each passing day, I’m one step closer to becoming the best version of myself.