Okay, let’s be real—your 20s can feel like a whirlwind. Between work, relationships, and trying to figure out what the heck you’re doing with your life, it’s easy to let people and things take up way too much of your time. But here’s the thing: your time is crazy valuable, and once it’s gone, you’re not getting it back.
If you’re constantly feeling drained or stretched too thin, it might be time to ask yourself—am I letting people waste my time?
Your 20s are basically the foundation for the rest of your life. The habits you build, the people you surround yourself with, and the way you spend your time right now all add up. And the scary part? If you don’t take control of it, someone else will. Whether it’s a draining friendship, a job that’s going nowhere, or endless scrolling on social media (yeah, we’re all guilty), it’s time to start being more intentional.
Signs You’re Letting People Waste Your Time
If any of this sounds familiar, it’s time for a little reality check:
• You say yes to things just because you feel bad saying no.
• You spend time with people who drain your energy instead of inspiring you.
• You feel busy all the time but aren’t actually moving forward in life.
Sound familiar? Don’t worry, we’ve all been there. The good news is, you can totally take your time back.
How to Stop Letting People Waste Your Time
First things first—you have to start setting boundaries (and no, it’s not selfish). Here’s how you can do it without feeling like a jerk:
• Learn to say no. Seriously, it’s a game-changer. If something doesn’t align with your goals, pass on it.
• Be mindful of who you hang out with. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and push you to be better.
• Check your commitments. If something isn’t adding value to your life, it’s okay to walk away.
Two Books That Will Change Your Mindset on Time
If you’re ready to start making better use of your time, here are two books you need to read:
• Buy Back Your Time by Dan Martell – This book is all about focusing on what actually matters and cutting out the things that don’t.
• Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown – Perfect for learning how to simplify your life and focus on the things that truly count.
Look, your time is yours—don’t let other people waste it. Be intentional, set those boundaries, and start focusing on what actually makes you happy and moves you forward. Your future self will seriously thank you.
Dom 🩵
